“Comparing your spouse to another person is the fastest way to hate them” Solomon Buchi

Recently Solomon Buchi had made an assertion that comparing one’s partner to others can be a fast track to unhappiness has sparked discussion. He contends that the act of comparing is often an apples-to-oranges scenario, where the “container” of someone else’s relationship is compared to the “substance” of one’s own. It’s an issue many married couples face but don’t always openly discuss.

In another bold statement, Buchi suggests that unless you’ve lived with someone, you cannot truly evaluate whether they are better or worse than your spouse. This perspective raises questions about the basis for judgment and highlights the importance of firsthand experience in understanding a person’s character.

Kemi Filani had reported some days ago that Buchi has drawn attention to parenting in the digital age, revealing that he and his wife plan to withhold funds from their children until they reach university age. Their reasoning is that early access to smartphones may expose children to negative influences and behavior. This stance calls for reflection on modern parenting techniques and their impact on children’s development.

Also, recall that Kemi Filani had reported that Solomon Buchi had found himself in a dispute with Davido’s fans when he criticized a video of Davido dancing with school children in uniform. He contended that the song’s lyrics and the dance were inappropriate for kids. This incident highlights the fine line between artistic expression and the responsibility of public figures towards their audience.

Solomon Buchi’s views on submission in relationships have also stirred debate. He believes that, from a Christian perspective, submission is not mutual but rather a woman’s natural role to submit to a man, while the man submits to God. This perspective aligns with traditional Christian values but raises questions about gender equality and contemporary interpretations of biblical teachings.